Facilitation & training

Creative, effective processes and gatherings for regenerative culture
and strategy

Why I facilitate

I am experienced facilitator, with fifteen years of hosting all manner of gatherings, from strategy processes, events and organisational culture retreats, to rituals and bespoke ceremonies to mark life’s transitions.

Facilitation is where I feel most in flow and most useful to the work of creating better worlds. I dream of profound healing between people and land, and where all beings are enlivened by creativity, reciprocity and dignity.

To “facilitate” means to “make easier”. I believe that when humans gather together to work towards a common purpose, (an organisation, product, event or ceremony, for example), it’s worth making that collaboration as easeful, creative and effective as possible. Because how we make things happen dictates the quality of the outcome. I’m sure we’ve all been part of projects with worthy ambitions that failed to materialise due to dysfunctional collaboration. And projects that far exceeded expectations because every person involved was valued and liberated to do incredible work.

About my practice

My facilitation is creative, elegant and transparent. I’m flexible, intuitive and effective, able to hold large groups in complexity, change up an agenda on the fly and keep participants accountable to their intentions and the people they serve.

I have a wide toolkit of facilitation techniques for exploring and narrowing, dreaming and deciding, playing and clarifying, diverging and agreeing. I’m continually honing my practice, combining approaches from horizontal organising, behaviour change, systems change, coaching, Deep Democracy, regenerative strategy, collective imagination, grief tending and trauma-informed collaboration. See more in training and influences.

I care deeply about creating spaces of care and accountability where people can show up as they are and get things done. Spaces where we can gently learn how to honour both individual need and group need, how to know when we’re giving to the group and when we’re receiving, and how to keep returning to healthy relationship with each other.

Facilitation & training for organisations

Effective, meaningful processes, trainings and gatherings (retreats, away days, workshops) to help your teams align and grow (culture, collaboration and strategy). Read about my approach in my popular post, A regenerative organisational design primer.

I’ve worked across the civil society ecosystem for 15 years: UK and international governments, local governments, funders and charities. Previous clients include Doughnut Economics Action Lab, MAIA, Thirty Percy, The National Lottery Community Fund, NCVO, The Children’s Society, London Borough of Camden and the Department of Health and Social Care.

Increasingly, I am supporting organisations with bespoke processes and journeys to explore what good endings might look like, with the aim of facilitating better beginnings and, often, more effective organisational change work (given that all change work is loss work).

Festivals, conferences and events

[Coming soon]

Facilitation for grief tending, rituals and ceremony

Collective experiences to witness and tend to our grief, and support transitions or endings. Check out Events for upcoming grief circles and rituals, or get in touch for bespoke ceremonies (see Megan’s ceremony below).

I believe that grief is the medicine of our unsettling times, necessary at all levels: planetary, community, organisational and personal. Tending to our grief helps us metabolise loss and stay open, connected, flexible and creative.

Gatherings and practices of remembering

I’m the Co-founder and lead faciliator of Foregather. We help women to cultivate creative energy through practices of remembering. Subscribe to our newsletter to hear about upcoming gatherings.

  • Emily is a stunning facilitator. We felt held, witnessed and guided through the whole day. Emily held a beautiful balance of giving and taking space and stepping in when we need a bit of a nudge. She showed flexibility and responsiveness to the energy of the group, including reframing and redesigning on the go as needed, checking the team’s consent along the way. I’m in so much appreciation for Emily’s ability to hold such expansive, philosophical and practical-based conversations, while respecting time – a real masterclass of how to hold spaces of complexity with gentle integrity. It was a joy working with Emily, she’s a gem and we can’t wait to work with her again.

    Amalgamated feedback from MAIA team members

  • Emily's facilitation was refreshingly, gentle, intuitive and respondent to the groups needs and energy which often changed. She was firm and kind, responsive and structured. So artful; she made it look effortless.

    Amalgamated feedback from Foregather Hartland 2024 participants

  • Emily is a wonderful facilitator and brings a lot of useful models and concepts with her. She is a beautiful collaborator, well-versed in centring and modelling all that is care-based, thoughtful, equitable, inclusive, regenerative and relational. She’s an amazing problem solver and brings a lot of pragmatism and care to complex situations. I appreciated how open she was about the learning journey she’s going on with anti-racist and anti-oppressive work (which I think she models naturally). It's been so amazing to work with Emily, I always feel supported collaborating with her. She leans in, talks things through and supports us to make good decisions.

    Tayo Medupin, Founder of Hello Brave

  • This was such an enriching experience, so thoughtfully and carefully designed and curated to enable me to bring the best version of myself. I felt so well cared for, physically and psychologically. I came feeling a sense of urgency to develop one of my ideas but left with more confidence and a deep sense of self-belief. There was beauty, magic, joy, vulnerability, companionship and ease. It really has to be experienced to understand. Thanks to the generous creators and hosts.

    Anita, Foregather Hartland 2024 participant

  • Emily and Tope [Medupin] are both fabulous space holders and facilitators. They created a very safe space for the team to reflect together on what had been difficult. The whole relationship felt so genuine and worked so smoothly, we all remember it as a fabulous experience. The impact was that we were able to clearly articulate what our organisational needs were in terms of operations and ultimately that resulted in DEAL hiring two brilliant Operations Co- Leads! It was just such a fabulous choice to bring them both to help us at a critical time for DEAL.

    Carlota Sanz, Co-founder, Doughnut Economics Action Lab

Case studies

Design and facilitation of workshops, away days and multi-day organisational retreats for funders, charities, social enterprises and the NHS

Co-design and co-facilitation of Camden Council’s and Moral Imaginations’ training programme, Camden Imagines

Facilitation for the MAIA team as they explored and defined their organisational infrastructure of care

Coaching for Local Trust staff and Big Local changemakers during the closure of both organisations

Reflective practice sessions for Thirty Percy staff as they prototyped an eldership fund for activists

Co-creator and co-host of Foregather, gatherings and practices that connect women more deeply to creative energy

Training and coaching the senior leadership teams of major UK charities in collaboration, change, operating model transformation and systems change

Guiding the Doughnut Economics Action Lab leadership team through crafting a new strategy and governance structure

Defining what radically better organisational development in the UK nonprofit looks like, through the Patterns for Change consortium

Through ff studio, facilitating the CDPS team to define their strategy for digital capability building in Wales

Through NOBL, supporting a large public and private education consortium to improve their collaboration

Designing a new coaching-led appraisals process for With You, still in use six years later